If you have prepped well, then you may find yourself in a position of being able to maintain your appearance and well being during a longer emergency.
The problem is that there can be great danger in that. Looking too good and put together during SHTF can backfire on you.
People lose weight with less food available, after a given length of time, this will become more noticeable.
While the average American is extremely overweight, that can change a lot during a SHTF situation. Everyone is going to lose weight and if you don’t that is going to be an indicator that you are holding out or have supplies that others may desire you may have much more than needed and be considered a bad person for not sharing regardless of how deserving someone is of anything.
It is in your best lose some weight like everyone else if you have some to spare. You can also disguise your weight and give the illusion of weight loss by wearing baggy clothing.
Looking like you are not better fed than the majority can keep the wolves away from your stash or hurting your family in the hopes of some gain. It doesn’t even have to be the promise of much at all during a real SHTF situation. Of course, this is more important if you are in an area of higher population density or have to be seen by others regularly. Ideally, you could just stay put and not be seen by many people.
Keeping up on hygiene is one of the most important things during a real SHTF situation. It gets overlooked because food water and shelter take the top spots regarding what is important. Staying clean becomes very important when you are just a scrape away from a life-threatening infection with no help of medical care or antibiotics beyond what you have been smart enough to stash back yourself. This is one reason why antibiotic ointments are so important. They can prevent problems and help you to avoid using more serious meds.
Keep yourself clean but don’t take it too far. Chances are that washing clothes is going to be harder and at times not even possible.
If you are changing pants more often than every 3 days, I suggest you get in a different habit. Not only is it wasteful, but it also makes people think you are a very fancy person during SHTF. If you got the time to have a clean pair of britches every day then you probably have some great preps and you are obviously not having to scrounge for a meal or water. You can stay healthy without showering daily. In fact, even just a weekly shower is more than what some people can manage during a SHTF situation they are not really prepared for.
Living without the luxury of being able to clean oneself easily or not having hot running water or a flush toilet is not easy. I have been there. It was my life not that many years ago.
I lived with Matt without hot water for more than 5 years building this house. Part of the reason was an order of operations for codes, then money, and other causes. It was not easy but we managed. I had no real bathroom for 4 years of my life. We hosed off in the yard and heated water for sponge baths. If you have water to spare then you just have to take some time to stay clean. Soap helps but the water that has been boiled or is very clean is far better than nothing at all.
There is a big difference in having very old filth caked on and just giving the appearance of being a little worse for the wear in terms of cleanliness. Of course, as times get tougher and darker, you need to seem as dirty as everyone else if you are out where you can be observed.
Make an effort to not stand out too much
Standing out in a crowd during times of stress is a big mistake. I may have some fun with fashion or hair now, but you can bet that I will not be in town during SHTF. If it has reached that point then going to town is not going to do me any good. Being prepared before is the way it has to be when you live out in the sticks. Chances are even now; you probably wouldn’t recognize me at the grocery store if you saw me. During SHTF or even if things just are starting to feel off it is a good idea to wear clothing that looks like everyone else. Don’t wear bright colors or patterns that make you memorable. Basic colors with no logos are good.
Attractiveness is not something to put on display during SHTF or any time of civil unrest
Some try to make the argument that women should make an effort to make themselves appear less attractive. I think that while it is not a good idea to flaunt your appearance in a situation, it is also probably not going to do a lot of good in general during an extended SHTF situation.
Rape is a sexual act, but often it is not really all about sex. Rape is used to break someone, to control them and to inflict as much psychological injury on that person and those that care about them. The perpetrators of crimes of this level during a major situation are using it as a tool or method of war. Making yourself less attractive may not help that much or any at all. Just being a woman, especially one on your own, is enough to make you a target during SHTF.
At the same time, you should tone it down. Don’t wear clothes that are intended to arouse curiosity and attention. During a real SHTF, you won’t care or have time for makeup. Don’t do things to draw attention to your appearance. Fashion and colors are fun, but everyone needs to tone it down in a major civil disruption.
Don’t wear jewelry. You may want to hide even a wedding ring. That is valuable and flashy.
Be cold and hard. Now is not the time to be the friendliest person on the block. This can be seen as a sign of weakness.
While I have been in situations where I felt I was at risk of harm, I have pretty much always had some knowledge of self-defense and 1-2 weapons on me. Yep, from the time I was 7 or 8 I had at least a knife. At 13 I added pepper spray to that. There are things you can do to be on more level footing if someone wishes to harm you. While this may seem extreme, I have not feared men as much over the years.
I encourage you to teach your daughters as well as your sons’ self-defense or take some classes together if they are old enough. Girls don’t have to feel like walking soon to be victims. Give them the skills they need to help level the field so they are confident and ready to defend themselves.
Don’t smell pretty
If times get tough, there is going to be some odors to deal with. If you walk around smelling like Prada perfume and roses and everyone else has a two-day-old gym sock odor permeating the airspace around them, you are going to have all eyes on you. When people are on edge, a strange scent can draw a lot of attention and give away your location.
Also, any smells are a good way to give yourself away if you need to be stealthy. SHTF is not about pretty or nice smelling!
Acting too happy is a bad thing
Ok so you have spent years of your life and all your spare money preparing for a long emergency or SHTF situation, and finally, something happens, but you and your family have everything to keep your standard of living good and not do without too much for more than six months. Well good for you but you can bet that the majority of people are going to be feeling pretty low. Make sure you don’t act too happy when everyone else is miserable or at least slightly depressed. It can be annoying and even make others loathe your existence and happiness all at the same time. That is a very dangerous position to be in and not at all necessary. Act low and depressed when around others. Make them buy it that you are in the same shape as them or very close to it.
Learn to be the best bluffer or bulls***** you can because it could save your life.
When it comes to bluffing, I have to say it takes a smooth operator that can stay calm and collected to pull something major off during a real SHTF scenario. Look, I know that lying to everyone is not something that you want to have to do, but if it hits the fan, then you should be ready to be the best liar you can be. The art of BSing has saved a lot of people just as it has got a lot in trouble.
Playing dumb can work sometimes. Also planting information or rumors could be helpful. Honesty is not the best policy all the time when you are trying to protect your life and those that you love.
Be hard to figure out
Being too interesting has its disadvantages, but at the same time, you don’t want someone to figure you out entirely. Having a bit of mystery about yourself can be helpful. People don’t like the unexpected. If there is an easier target that they have figured out, it may at least buy you some time before you are the focus of their attention.
I live on acres of land on a dead end of a 4 wheel drive only road. Seriously I have seen cars sink in holes to the point of looking like they are on their noses. This means you are not just going to drive by and see my house, vineyard, barn, or any of that. In town, it is impossible to not have a lot of people able to drive by on any given day. Having a place that blends into the surroundings or fits into the neighborhood helps you just be like everyone else from the outside. This is great if you can pull it off. Of course, if you make it up our terrible road you would see the farm and everything. It stands out. You cannot always blend in if you have a lot going on or even a place that doesn’t have garbage piles.
If I wanted my house to blend in I would need at least 20 old tires and 20 buckets thrown randomly about. That is not something I want.
At the same time if I was in a small town or neighborhood in a city I would make more of an effort to make sure everything looked like it belonged. That might mean as SHTF progressed, throwing some junk around or not keeping up the yard. You have to do what you have to do if you want to make it through some situations.
Wait until after SHTF is over to worry about having everything in perfect order. Take a glance around your neighborhood and take note of overall appearance and who and what stands out.
Have you thought about how you are going to blend in for SHTF?
Samantha Biggers can be reached at email@example.com.