Be aware that it is not always easy to know if a child is overweight since it is natural for kids to put on a little extra weight at various times throughout childhood. So, please check with the child’s doctor before having a talk to your child.
Offer assurance and nurture your child’s self-esteem. Let your child know that he or she is accepted, no matter what. Most important, do not ridicule or call her fat as*s as I was called.
Focus on health and not weight. Trust me, the overweight child knows that he or she is fat and does not want to be told over and over again about the virtues of being thin. That will make him or her feel even worse and may possibly lead to sneaking food or even an eating disorder. Fad diets (we are talking about kids here) are a no-no. This is the time to roll out healthy eating habits family-wide. Talk to your kids about making better food choices and teach them by example. Use portion control if necessary but starving them is not allowed! You should eat what they eat and in quantities that are reasonable. Remember, you are setting an example. Do a pantry makeover and eliminate salty and sugary snacks, fatty foods, and whole milk products. Instead, stock your household with colorful veggies and luscious fruits – all cut up and ready to snack on in a moment’s notice. Gradually introduce whole grain versions of breads and pastas and substitute brown rice for white. Find ways to become more active. Go on hikes, go skating, or ride bicycles as a family. Take your dog for an extended walk and ask your child to come along. Make this a fun time and gradually increase the length of the physical activity and the frequency. And please, make sure this is being done in the spirit of fun and not punishment. Do not talk about your child’s weight, lack of sports ability, and poor self-image in front of him or her. There is a term that is used, “third person invisible”. As a matter of fact, do not talk about anyone’s shortcomings (child or adult) in front of them as though they are not in the same room. That is simply cruel.Addressing the issue of weight and poor fitness is one that needs to be handled with love, encouragement and a spirit of acceptance. Doing this for the children you love may be the greatest gift that you can give them in these uncertain times. Enjoy your next adventure through common sense and thoughtful preparation! Gaye In the News: Even if you live thousands of miles away from where Irene hit, that’s no guarantee that you won’t run into a storm-damaged car on the used car dealer lot. These cars could be salvages or total losses, with screwed up engines and rotting components. Read all about it here. From the Bargain Bin: Current SurvivalWoman picks. Mylar bags & Oxygen Absorbers: The current price for 20 gallon sized bags plus 20 oxygen absorbers is $14.46. I have seen the price of these come down over the past few months – this is about $5.00 less than I paid. Remington Hair Straightening Flat Iron: Perfect for sealing those Mylar bags. This one is less than $17 with free shipping. For this purpose, there is simply no reason to spend more than that. Lodge Logic 4-Quart Cast-Iron Camp Dutch Oven: Love it love it love it. This is the perfect size for all types of things: baked beans, stews, and my favorite, peach cobbler. Watch for a review soon! Don’t forget the Lodge Set of 2 Pan Scrapers, a must have for cleaning those food bits from your cast iron cookware. Sabre Family Home and Property Protection Pepper Spray (13.0-Ounce): From the company that makes bear defense sprays, this pepper spray has a range of 30 feet and can be mounted right near the door. 550lb. Type III Paracord 100′ Black: I wish I had known about Paracord years ago. With a recent price reduction to less than $8.00, there is no reason not to have a few hundred feet around your home, in your car, and in your bug out bag. Emergency Essentials is your source for all things preparedness, from prepackaged foods to water barrels, to go bag kits. They just announced a number of specials for the month of September including ASAP Silver Solution at $12.99 for an 8 ounce bottle. Metallic silver has been used for centuries as a natural antibacterial agent for wound care, and even water treatment.
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